KATHMANDU DAYS No3
Holi/St David’s Day/Milarepa’s
Millenary, full moon
Fulmaya
stayed at her sister’s last night and is walking around Bouddha Stupa this
morning. She phones me. I miss the call. I call back three times but she doesn’t
answer. It’s 7am and the sun’s been up
for an hour.
Things
are complicated here. Better to have no
expectations except to prepare for the unexpected.
It’s
Holi. Out on the street the kids have
started to throw colours on each other.
The dogs bark and some are stained red, blue, green and yellow. Young boys are forming gangs and looking for
girls to attack with small purpose-made balloons filled with the coloured
water. Jitu, whose house I’m staying in,
tells his two young sons that the powder is lead based and they shouldn’t be
using it. They don’t listen and carry on
filling the balloons with water adding pinches of coloured powder through the
neck of the balloons. Jitu has already
turned away to occupy himself with some other matter of pressing importance on
his phone.
Jitu’s
son Mingmar
I
try to contact a friend who used to live in Edinburgh, Kishor Dongol. He is helping to produce a play in French, The Pearl by Guy de Maupassant. The incongruity of a French play in Nepal
doesn’t seem to register. But then I
remember seeing a British Council production of The Three penny Opera in the
Vajra Hotel in Kathmandu years ago. Kishor
is also a professional photographer and had taken photographs of the earthquake
that hit Nepal two years ago. I am
trying to arrange for some of his photographs to be included in an exhibition
planned for Coburg House Art Studios during the Edinburgh Festival. As with all plans here, they have the
potential to leave us naught but grief
and pain for promise joy if we take them too seriously. We arrange to meet
at a café the next day in an area called Chuchchepatti. The café is run by staff who are deaf. I feel that this plan will change several
times by tomorrow. [Surprisingly, it
doesn’t.]
PM. Fulmaya and I go off to Flavours Café in Bouddha. As today is a special day – the one
thousandth anniversary of the birth of Milarepa, a Tibetan Buddhist saint, my
muse – she buys me a little gold plated statue of him sitting cross-legged with
one hand behind his ear listening for inspiration from the cosmos. Somewhere on my bookshelf at home I have the One Hundred Thousand Songs of Milarepa. I had read some of them and became aware very
soon of the tautologous nature of the songs.
There’s no limit to how many ways you can express your love of life, but
the words available with which to do this are surely limited.
Milarepa
We
reach the café and sitting round the table are my Fulmaya’s two sisters and
their husbands, arrived from New York.
One of the sisters runs an outlet wholesaling goods from India and
Nepal, mostly clothes. They’re here to
pick up goods from various distributers. Many of the outlets in Kathmandu are
closed today and her husband looks relieved.
We
order and drink coffee served by a dwarf whose head is just above the level of
the table. She has a pleasant smile and
looks around 30 years old, but it’s hard to tell.
In
my pocket I have about Rs 500 in five rupee notes to give to the beggars who
are crowded round the stupa outside the café.
Each note is worth around 5 pence.
As well as being Milarepa’s birthday, Holi and a full moon, this is a
day when it is auspicious to be generous to the less fortunate.
Outside
sitting on the ground are the amputees, the blind, the widows with children,
the flotsam and jetsam washed up at Bouddha Stupa to collect their donations
from the people who circumambulate the prayer wheels. At random I give to whom I consider to be the
neediest: the man who walks on all
fours; another pushing a wheelchair with limbs awry; a woman surrounded by
several children, filthy and dressed in rags.
Later,
back at the house, Donny the youngest son of the family, takes me up on to the
flat roof of the house and offers me a splif from a large bag of ganja. He tells me he has harvested it from an
organic farm where it has been cultivated in a field. “It might taste of potatoes,” he warns
me. This is the first I’ve had in years. I manage a few puffs but that is enough. I leave it lying on the parapet in case I
decide to return later.
So
this is a part of my third day in Kathmandu.
I read about the snow and winds in the UK and glad to be where I am for
the time being but know that the sun, the noise, the crowds, the pollution, the
chaos, the pandemonium, the car horns and bicycle bells and the dust will affect
me in the end and I’ll be ready to return home.
Until then, let the days pass by.
With
Fulmaya at the stupa






