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Wednesday, 31 October 2012

NORCHUNG'S HOUSE


NORCHUNG’S



We’re staying in a little house in the village, different from the surrounding houses.  This one’s made of concrete while the others in the neighbourhood are made of stone.  We are nearly 9,000 feet up the valley and the air is thin, leaving us breathless with the uphill climbs.  Around the hills are chortens and stupas dedicated to various deities.  Multi-coloured lines of prayer flags billow in the breeze like tattered sails on a pirate ship.  Miniature homes far away in the valley button down the patchwork blanket of wheat and saag, furrowed earth and rice, millet and mustard.

Norchung’s wife has the face of a South American Indian.  Surely, I think, there must be some genetic link.  Her chiseled features reflect the hardness of her life, bringing up three boys and looking after the house without any of the accouterments we have in the west to make life easy.


NORCHUNG'S WIFE
Pema, Urken and Nedup are well-mannered boys.  When I ask for anything they are up and running and appear immediately with a notebook, a pen, a cup of warm milk.  Their father, Norchung, is extremely high energy and never sits still for a minute, offering tea, noodles, chang, again and again.  On our visits from house to house, all the families are the poor relations of Fulmaya. The limitless generosity of the villagers bestows upon us small kindnesses that envelop us in a warm cocoon of love.


FULMAYA WITH THE THREE BOY'S





Early in the morning, the stonemasons arrive to continue working on a shed which will double as a place to keep the cows and bison and as a still for making the local rakshi of millet spirit.  The come in to the house and are served a dish of hetousi – fried potatoes and squash – and a glass of thick, rice beer.  They go outside and dress the stones with small, heavy mallets, tapering on one end.  Inside we hear the clunk of iron on stone as the pieces are dressed and fitted, a grey jigsaw wall standing solid on the earth, immovable except by time and weather.


A WORKMAN WITH A NATURAL HAT

The walls are nearly a foot thick.  In the middle of the enclosure is a deep hole, constantly being replenished with water to provide the mud clay which bonds the stones together.

In an adjoining field, the boys are flying home-made kites and there is a kind of partyish atmosphere with much shouting, hammering and laughter.

We visit a neighbour who is staying in Fulmaya’s parent’s house, built by her great, great grandfather.  Fulmaya tells me she was actually born in the jungle and left Helambu for Assam before she was one-year old.  There were six-children living in the one room above the cow shed.  An adjoining toilet was a hole at the entrance and excrement dropped below to the chickens which were locked in at night.  This practice still persists and now I’ll leave eggs out of my diet.  Surprisingly, there’s a photo of the family in Assam and I’m at the front of the group, black hair and clean shaven.  Must have been taken around 1986.  We both look young and fresh.
INSIDE A HYOLMU HOUSE


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